Good Girl Gone rogue
THE ROAD WAS NEVER MEANT TO TAME YOU.
IT WAS MEANT TO AWAKEN YOU!
Yet why do so many women settle for taming?
I bet if you’re a “good girl”, you’ve lost touch with what freedom feels like and you want to go rogue!
I bet deep down inside you wish you could escape, because being good is a terrible substitute for a vibrant life.
You might not even realize how much you long to be fully embodied and integrated to yourself.
Not merely the parts you think are good, pretty or acceptable, but all the achy, lonely, different, spiritual, and sexual parts of yourself that want to be fully embraced and loved.
It’s the conversations you’re most afraid to have that hold the most power over you.
It’s the unspoken, excommunicated ideas, messages and thoughts within you that create the most turmoil.
Here’s the thing, taking the time to love and connect with yourself on a deeper level is not selfish.
It’s a holy thing, because you can’t truly love others until you first learn to care for and love yourself.
When you become present to yourself, you begin to grow, heal and transform like never before and suddenly your life becomes a celebration.
Heck, you should be celebrating your life, or what’s the point?
Why hustle for pats on the head and being everyone else's hero, when you’re failing yourself?
That outdated system only works if you’re oblivious to the fact that you’re surviving on crumbs.
Being an after thought is so outdated!
Ever hear that thump in your heart yelling, “Girl, wake up! You’re betraying yourself!
Pay attention and get present!”
That nagging feeling is telling you that all that superfluous busyness means
you’re not showing up for yourself.
You’re merely bypassing the pain of reality. You’re in resistance.
Here’s the thing: you’re smart. You’re capable of so much more than parroting what’s expected of you.
I know what it’s like to force-fed yourself what you can’t digest, just to make yourself palatable for others.
There’s so much more for you! I want to help you move out of your own way and discover the freedom of celebrating your life instead of settling for leftovers.
When you're running on leftovers, you end up in struggle and you don’t even recognize this tendency until it catches up to you through health issues, apathy or a lagging constitution.
GirlFriend, YOur LIFE WAS NEVER MEANT TO BE ENDURED.
IT WAS MEANT TO BE CELEBRATED!
The truth is that you have choices and you’re the one ultimately responsible to direct your life in the way you want it to go.
I remember discussing this with a client who was blown away when it sank in that she really did have choices.
She really was the one responsible to drive her life.
Ouch! The thing is we all have resistance.
You probably have really good reasons for the resistance in your life… ( I sure have! )
Resistance has actually helped you survive what you've been through and until you hold the space to welcome instead of judge what's going on beneath the surface, you will never be able to shift out of it.
That means making an intentional choice to look at the excuses and resistance that might be blocking you and keeping you out of sync with what you truly feel and want in life.
Resistance can actually work for you, because it's a messenger providing valuable information.
It's inviting you to listen and take a closer look at what's really going on.
It's letting you know that there is more available for you.
A greater expansion is possible, as you reassess and redefine your playbook.
Creating a welcoming internal climate is crucial to shift out of reoccurring cycles that have kept you stuck. Yet, it's difficult to navigate without the support of someone who can guide you into your own transformation.
Transformation Begins When You Decide to Drive Your Life!
This is where you determine if you've mode of operation is serving you or continuing to create conflict.
It's how you begin to individuate (at any age) by redefining and separating yourself from your mama's beliefs, the culture's beliefs, or your good ole ‘good girl’ing’ that’s stealing your aliveness.
I WANT YOU TO GIVE YOURSELF PERMISSION TO CELEBRATE YOUR OWN UPRISING!
Are you ready to…
✔️Rediscover the Joy of living
✔️Rediscover the power of personal agency instead of abdicating it
✔️Rediscover the thrill of loving yourself instead of force-feeding yourself the stuff you can’t swallow
✔️Rediscover the Joy of your own uprising
There’s nothing quite as liberating and exhilarating as welcoming back into the fold the parts of yourself that have long been abandoned.
It’s nothing short of empowering to learn to care for yourself instead of the whole damn choir.
Life Coaching is a tremendous support for renewed awareness and growth.
As you give attention to the space within that has long since been ignored, and begin to celebrate your life, you’ll come alive in ways you never knew possible.
If you've determined that you're a worth the investment (you most certainly are) and you'd like support on your journey,
take advantage of my complementary 30 minute phone coaching session to determine if coaching is right for you.